Studs and Their Fragile MasculinityTen years ago, when I came out labeling yourself was a monumental moment in the coming out process. Placing yourself in a category helped...
Studs and Their Fragile MasculinityTen years ago, when I came out labeling yourself was a monumental moment in the coming out process. Placing yourself in a category helped...
Remembering DownelinkIt almost feels like a lifetime ago when I was sitting on the computer in my parents home connecting with the gays through the internet. ...
Is How I Identify Problematic?Yesterday was International Women’s Day. I felt like a member of the club on one hand and on the other I felt very much on the outside. I...
Love With No Intention: Happy Valentine's Day"What are your intentions with my daughter?" What a famous question. I don't expect every woman to fall in love with me. In fact, they ha...
Walking In Truth Opens Door: I am proofWhen I came up with the title of my blog, I was pretending to take notes during a meeting. I was also talking shit because, hey, I was bo...
Queerer Things: 4 Reasons to Watch 'A Luv Tale'Onto queerer things. I’m a basic lesbian/queer person. I have an unapologetic habit of only watching movies or television shows which fea...
Anxiety Ain't Shit: the worst place to have a panic attackI am a believer in the idea we all have some level of anxiety. We all deal with our issues differently but anxiousness, I believe, is uni...
Basic, Bad, & Bitchie: It's A Blog!!I am a basic bad bitch. Hence the title of this blog page. I giggled when I wrote that. Don’t get confused, I’m not a bad bitch by defini...
I Got Pregnant By A Lesbian: True StoryI have mixed feelings regarding pregnancy in my life. On one hand I pride myself on my sexual orientation and the fact that I cannot "acc...
Tall Apple Leaves: A PoemWe were three Words in playfulness Tangled together we made one Tree - made of roots trunk branches and leaves - Sign Initials in hearts ...
Self-Loving My Skin: A PoemI am Black A Multicolored blend I am my ancestors on my skin I’ve been blueBlack I’ve been sunkissed, sunbathed, sunburned, sundrenched I...
Dear Tiffany: for the six years I lost after youDear Tiffany, It’s great to see you moved on. Unfortunately, it’s been hard for me. I don't want you to think it's hard because I wish we...
Celibacy, Lisa, and The Lioness: The Battle I Believe I’m Losing - Part 2Note: This series of blogs will be my truth and personal history. I am the type of person who writes to vent. I am sharing to purge my pa...
Celibacy, The Woman, and The Lioness: A Story of a Celibate Lesbian - Part 1Note: This series of blogs will be my truth and personal history. I am the type of person who writes to vent. I am sharing to purge my pa...
Dear Tiffany: A letter to a friend I lost at fifteenDear Tiffany: I thought I’d start this letter like the notes we wrote in middle school. Make it pretty, spending all of 1st period colori...
Best Friends in Love“The End” Piper I married my best friend underneath the waving branches of a weeping willow. It was a beautiful morning. The sun was warm...
WelcomeI just finished my website, this website, and because for some odd reason my mother is my best friend so I wanted to show her first. I sh...
